Monday, February 24, 2014

Misdiagnosed Moments



It was a busy weekday morning as usual, Karen was up an hour earlier than everyone else so she could meditate, exercise and start breakfast.  She woke the children up and went on to the next task.  She called for little Jessi so she could comb her hair, but there was no response.  Realizing five minutes later that Jessi still had not responded, she called out to her again, but with a little irritation in her voice, muttering under her breath “if that girl is still in bed, she’ll be sorry.  We just discussed this yesterday”.  The children know that if mom has to come and get you, it is not going to be pretty.  Karen placed the bacon in the oven, took the grits off the burner, placed the top over the pot, wiped her hands and went marching up the stairs.  When she got to Jessi’s room, she stood silently outside the door listening for movement but couldn’t hear any.  She put her ear closer to the door and heard muffled laughter.  Her first thought was to burst into the room, but instead she decided to open the door quietly, and to her surprise, her husband was in the room with Jessi.  He had just finished combing her hair.  Perception is not always reality.

Taylor woke up in the middle of the night short of breath.  He tried to speak but couldn’t because it felt like an elephant was sitting on his chest.  His wife, Sami, woke up to see him putting his sweats on in the dark.  While turning the light on she asked him what he was doing but when his eyes met hers she saw panic.  His usual calm demeanor was screaming for help though no sound left his mouth.  She was dressed and they were out the door within 47 seconds headed to the hospital.  To their disbelief, the ER was empty.  She re-counted the events to the nurse and they quickly took Taylor to a room.  Sami prayed while they assessed him.  A few hours later the doctor said it was a bad case of heart burn.  That didn’t make sense to Sami and it didn’t feel right especially when she learned they didn’t run an EKG on Taylor.  She didn’t get irate, but she insisted that they run an EKG.  When the doctor returned with the results, Taylor started to experience extreme discomfort and he had a heart attack right on the table in front of the red-faced doctor.  Sami’s refusal to leave and insistence that they run tests saved her husband’s life. 

We can all identify with misdiagnosed moments at one point in our lives or another, some of them as innocent as Karen’s husband surprising her by combing his daughter’s hair to the devastation of being medically misdiagnosed.  Those moments of uncertainty can cause us to react in ways that can be courageous or make us look like absolute basket cases.  But what do you do when you are faced with a misdiagnosed moment:

You know God has more for you, because he revealed to you, but nothing seems to be working in your favor.  The more you pray the worse it “appears” to get.  The trials seem to come one on top of another like a woman when she is in the last stages of labor whose contractions are so close together there is no relief.  God, where are you?  I can’t breathe; I can’t take “this”; I’m drowning.  But the Lord gently whispers down in your spirit:
For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.  Jeremiah 29:11 (NKJV)

Paula spent her last $500 to get her car repaired for the fifth time in five months.  She drove off the lot and some idiot in a commercial truck runs a light; hits her broadside completely totaling the car.  Strangers run to her rescue while other rubber necks literally stop their vehicles in disbelief as they see her emerge from the car: no scratches, cuts or broken bones.  Some think she’s having a nervous breakdown because she is crying uncontrollably and shouting at her father, but she was the only one in the car.  “FATHER, THANK YOU FOR SAVING ME”; FATHER THANK YOU FOR PROTECTING ME”; “HALLELUJAH”; 
“BLESS YOU FATHER”; “THANK YOU FATHER”. 
I will bless the Lord at all times; His praise shall continually be in my mouth.  (Psalm 34:1)
The insurance company arranges for a rental while they sort things out.  Seven days later Paula is shopping for a brand new car that she can pay for in full, pay off ALL her debt, take a much needed vacation with her family, tithe five figures and not miss a beat.
But as for you, you meant evil against me; but God meant it for good, in order to bring it about as it is this day, to save many people alive.  Genesis 50:20 (NKJV)

Maceo graduated from the school of the arts.  He got called to shoot a few small rolls which led to a big part in a movie, playing the role of a stereotypical Latino brother compromise his values and he respectfully declines.  His friends criticize him but he is trusting God regardless of what anyone thinks.  He has exhausted his savings and takes a job at local Starbucks.  Though it’s not what he wants, every day he leaves for work, he declares that God is placing the right people in his life with the power, influence and ability to help him.  A customer arrives that he has never seen before (which is not unusual).  He stops his cell phone conversation just long enough to rudely bark out his unique coffee drink: skinny this, extra shot of that, with extra whip at 165 degrees, double cupped with a sleeve and a straw.  Maceo has an intoxicating smile which is infectious.  He rings the gentlemen up who finally makes eye contact with Maceo and he is quickly infected by that big broad smile which is oddly soothing.  Maceo greets the next customer, a familiar face, who asks about his acting, etc.  The rude “skinny” customer quickly ends his phone conversation and ear hustles.  Turns out this guy is a screen writer on assignment to find a replacement for the guy they just fired.  He quickly tells Maceo about the role in a film they are about to shoot.  They both click, exchange information and agree to meet later that day to discuss details. Ultimately Maceo auditions for the part under the anointing and it’s a wrap.   
And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose.  Romans 8:28 (NKJV)

We are so quick to take life experiences at face value which very often cause us to misdiagnose moments that have been set up, planned out and orchestrated by God.  I would like to call them “God-Moments”. 

We are faith walkers (For we walk by faith, not by sight 1 Corinthians 5:7) on the Journey that will lead to our destiny.  God won’t give us all of the details up front.  He will only give you information on a need to know basis, and that’s real talk right there.  So try this:   relax, when it feels like you are getting overwhelmed, take a step back, breathe and ask God for direction.  When He leads you, just follow and walk it out...

In His Humble Excellence


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